Do you ever feel like nothing is going your way, or that things keep falling apart? The natural human response is to blame your circumstances or the people around you. It takes a bit of "waking up" to take a step back and be an observer. How can you possibly pause and observe when it feels like everything is falling apart and you are in survival mode trying to keep it all together? What is there to even observe when everything is falling apart? The first and most powerful thing you can do is to slow down. Slow down your thinking, slow down the stories, the excuses, and the blame - whether it's directed towards others or towards yourself. Take some big breaths and visualize yourself floating above your life, looking down on it. It's like when you are flying in an airplane, looking down on the world. The farther away you get from life down below, the smaller the problems in the world seem to be. It gives you a whole new perspective and gives you a chance to clear your mind.
What do you notice about the people in your life as you look from a different perspective? As you look from way above them, are they happy? Are they suffering? Do they feel emotionally safe? Are they confident? Are they struggling in some way that is affecting their mood, their outlook on life, their tone of voice, their words, or their actions?
What do you notice about yourself when you look at yourself in the middle of everything going on in your life? What are you struggling with? I'm not just talking about situations like marriage, family, work, health, money, and so on. I'm talking about what is underneath all of that, causing those struggles. Is it fear, shame, guilt, self-doubt, or old wounds?
What if you are in the right place at the right time, in this moment, reading this? What if everything in your life was leading you to this moment to show you that there is a way out of the chaos, the pain, the mess, and the struggle? Looking at your life from this higher perspective, what do you think happens if you don't do anything and you continue on just as you were?
Now look at your life a few months, a year, and 10 years down the road after making the choice to do something. Something that would help you let go of all of that old pain. Something that would help you uncover your beautiful, powerful, meaningful divine truth and path. Something that would open your heart knowing that nobody had the power to hurt it, that you now walk in confidence and attract the people who are willing to love, support, and cheer you on. Something that would allow you to know that you are worth being seen and heard and that people are ready for what you have to offer and want to say yes to you.
You are at an important crossroads. Maybe the most important crossroads you've come to up to this point in your life. This is your moment of choice. Do you and I get the chance to talk and see if what I offer is your something? I hope so. I am here to guide you, support you, and show you the way to love yourself and understand your purpose so that you can move with life and not be stuck in it. You have important things to do. The next step is easy. Schedule your Success Consult with me today. See if this is your something. Email me to get started!
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